This article is written by Elina Allais, a Reiki and Crystal healing practitioner. She is also the creator of @CrystalPoems.
Whether you are striving to boost self-love, attract a new romantic partner, or reignite the passion in your existing relationship, these crystals can act as a magnet for more love to enter your life.
Pearl
Despite the fact that pearls are not classified as crystals, they have diverse and potent healing properties just like crystals do.
To me, pearl is the embodiment of pure love. Its simple beauty and elegance is unmatched in the world of gemstones.
Pearl is the symbol of feminine energy and the divine goddess. It is also a perfect gemstone to help unlock our intuition and psychic abilities.
Pearl teaches us that love is our true essence. We breathe love in from the first moment we open our eyes and it is what sustains and carries us through all of life’s ups and downs.
Pearl inspires us to love ourselves first and foremost. It helps us nurture ourselves and be gentle and compassionate towards ourselves. Once we make self-love a priority, everything else will follow and we will effortlessly attract true love and soulmate connections into our lives.
In addition to being a gemstone of strong nurturing qualities, pearl also surrounds us with a protective shield that swiftly clears away any negative energy.
Wearing pearl jewelry helps us feel blissful and wholesome, even if we are going through a period of loneliness and isolation. It has serene and soothing vibes, which help release stress and anxiety.
Pearl has a unique ability to restore faith where it has been lost, and to replace the pain of past traumas with harmony and stability. It can also helps to restore love and faith in an existing relationship.
Giving a pearl gemstone as a gift is a symbol of loyalty and purity of intentions.
Chrysoprase
The best way to attract more love into our lives is to heal our Heart Chakra and release any blockages. This is why I have chosen Chrysoprase as one of the three essential crystals to attract love into our hearts. The uplifting and optimistic energy of this crystal helps us heal and find greater joy in the here and now.
Chrysoprase is a perfect crystal to activate the Heart Chakra and release any deep-rooted fear, blame or regret, replacing these toxic feelings with forgiveness and compassion.
We are all on this planet to learn how to forgive and love unconditionally, even if it means letting go or putting boundaries in place with the ones we love.
No matter how much someone has hurt us, we need to find the strength to forgive and wish them healing, even if we do this from afar.
The harmonizing blue-green hues of Chrysoprase will help us overcome fear and anxiety, and connect us with the healing and nurturing qualities of flowing water – the rivers, lakes, and oceans of planet Earth.
A wonderful way to amplify this energy is to light some candles, preferably white, green or blue ones, take a relaxing bath, and hold a Chrysoprase crystal above your Heart Chakra. Visualize your heart opening up like the petals of a beautiful flower, and rays of brilliant white light radiating from it in all directions. Feel the sense of deep tranquillity and bliss taking over and enjoy this state of pure awareness for as long as you can.
Pink Tourmaline
Pink Tourmaline helps those who tend to be emotionally detached and guarded to open up to giving and receiving love.
It teaches us all that opening our hearts and showing our vulnerability to
others, even though we may have been hurt many times before, is a sign of incredible courage and inner strength.
Pink Tourmaline has gentle, comforting energy and therefore it is a perfect crystal to mend a broken heart and heal emotional wounds from the past. It also has purifying properties to help cleanse our energy field of any lingering negative energies.
Pink Tourmaline connects us with higher realms and dimensions to receive spiritual support and divine guidance. Its bright rejuvenating vibes fill each cell of our body with enthusiasm and joy during stressful times.
Pink Tourmaline encourages us to express ourselves with passion and purpose. Instead of letting our past failures make us bitter and skeptical about love and matters of the heart. We will be inspired to move forward and start over with a clean slate.
Crystal Affirmation for Clearing Attachments and Attracting Love:
A great little ritual to attract more love and romance into your life is to take your favorite healing crystal or gemstone and while gently holding it in your hands, say the following affirmation out loud or quietly whispering.
“My precious (Pearl, Pink Tourmaline or any other healing crystal or gemstone). Thank you for purifying my body, mind, and soul. Thank you for clearing away all negative energy, harmful attachments, and cords to relationships that do not serve my highest purpose. Thank you for helping me release any feelings of sadness, fear, guilt, blame, regret, and loneliness that are blocking the free flow of my life force energy and preventing me from moving forward on my soul path. Thank you for filling each cell of my body with pure love and light from the Universal Source, so that I can feel light and blissful once again and live my life to the fullest, enjoying each moment and radiating compassion, kindness, and harmony to all beings on planet Earth. Thank you for helping me attract the deep love and soul connection that I deserve.”
