Co-Creating Your Destiny

co-creating your destiny

We were all sent into this life and into our physical bodies in order to fulfill a greater purpose. This greater purpose is not a career or a certain level of income or anything physically obtained. It is a deeper soul calling that can only be discovered from within.

Even though our souls are here with a purpose, we also have free-will and the power to create, manifest and design certain aspects of our reality.

We may not be able to change what our soul is here to learn or soul contract, but we can definitely have a say over our desires, intentions and actions.

Using your free will, you have the power to set your intention and make a conscious decision on how you are going to approach your life. This is the power of creation and we all have the ability to create the reality that we desire- this is what makes life exciting!

“You are what your deepest desire is. As your desire is, so is your intention. As your intention is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”- Vedic Proverb.


Just like we can bring ingredients together to make a cake, we can bring certain elements or energies or ideas together to construct the life that we desire.

This is not about taking control, actually it is about releasing control and ensuring that your “ingredients” match up to the type of cake you want to create.

Take a moment now to think about all the “ingredients” you want to work with. For example- prosperity, love, happiness, peace, purpose and truth.

Now use the following tools to begin creating your ‘recipe’:

1.) Go to the Magic Space

What is the magic space? The magic space is the place between your thoughts. It is the gap between one thought and the next. And in that space is where your soul really lives.

Meditation is the most effective way to get you into the magic space – the space of creation, potential and pure consciousness.

When you finally begin to tap into your magic space, you instantly become a powerful manifestor and creator. It is here that you can listen to your soul and discover what your key ingredients should be and how you can bring them into your life.

It is through this step that you will be able to weed out what the ego wants and what your soul or higher self truly desires.

2.) Belief and Trust

Once you have listed your intended “ingredients” and heard the ingredients of your soul, it is time to feel them in your heart and instil them into your life.

It is all very well to have the ingredients, but if you don’t add them to your recipe, they will never become part of your cake (or life).

Adding your ingredients to your life starts with belief and trust. All it takes is for you, on your deepest level, to believe and trust that you can have and that you deserve to have all that you want for yourself.

It is as simple as that- know that you can have and are entitled to prosperity, love, happiness, peace, purpose, truth and anything else that is on your wish list, and all of it will fall into place.

From there you can also begin creating more of what you want in your life while remaining open to the signs and messages of the Universe.

3.) Let it Go

Just like any good baker will tell you, the more you check the oven during the baking process the less likely the cake will rise.

Just the same, if you constantly obsess over your intentions and desires it creates a need and fear, rather than a belief and trust.

Make your intentions clear, feel them, act on them and then let them go to the Universe. Don’t be concerned about the how and the why and the what. Just allow it to be and everything else will fall into place as it should be.

Once you send an intention out to the Universe it’s important to remain open to receiving what you asked for, and the only way you can truly remain open is by expressing your gratitude for everything that you have.

Using the three steps above, you can really co-create and manifest anything you want for yourself.

Why not give it a shot this week? Think about something you really desire for yourself, like prosperity for example, and then take the above steps to make it a reality.

To recap on co-creating your destiny:

1.) Think about what “ingredients” you want

2.) Meditate or clear your mind to ensure what you are asking for comes from a higher place

3.) Believe that you are worthy and deserving of having everything that you asked for

4.) Let it go to the Universe and be open to receiving by practicing gratitude

5.) Ding! Your Cake is ready…(and it’s delicious too!)

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About the author


Tanaaz is the creator of Forever Conscious. She is an intuitive astrologer and aims to use her writing to heal and inspire. She is also the author of several books including the Power of Positive Energy, Messages for the Soul, and My Pocket Mantras. She also runs online courses and in-person retreats.