This article is written by Elina Allais, a Reiki, Crystal healing practitioner. She is the creator of @CrystalPoems and the e-book – The Inspiring Story of 33 Crystals. You can join her for more on crystals on her YouTube channel.
In its essence, sex is a form of creativity and self-expression – a cosmic dance between the feminine and the masculine.
The deeper you go within yourself and the more you learn to accept yourself fully, the deeper your sense of pleasure and passion, not just in your romantic relationships but in all areas of your life.
When we are experiencing deep pleasure and joy, we are the most connected to the Divine.
For a sacred sexual union of two souls to take place, each partner needs to commit to doing their own inner work and finding their passion and purpose in life. Conscious intimacy requires a deep level of awareness and spiritual growth from both individuals.
Working with crystals can help to speed up your spiritual growth and offer you powerful long-term benefits. Some crystals can actually help to boost your libido and restore passion between you and your partner and for life in general.
The following is my selection of 3 crystals to work with for igniting your sexual passion. When choosing a crystal, go for the one you feel most drawn to, and just trust its inherent wisdom and healing powers.
Crystals for Igniting Sexual Passion
Garnet is truly a crystal of romance and passion. It has incredibly energizing and revitalizing vibes, and working with this crystal not only boosts your sexual passion, but passion for life in general.
If you feel that the relationship between you and your partner has lost its spark, working with a Garnet crystal can help reignite it. The deep red hues of this crystal help to restore sexual passion and bring a surge of exciting energy into your intimate relationship.
Garnet crystal reminds us that pleasure is our birthright and that we should allow ourselves to feel pleasure and joy, instead of feeling guilty or ashamed about it.
We didn’t incarnate here on planet Earth only to work and bear responsibilities, we are here to share experiences and moments of pure bliss as well.
When we are experiencing deep pleasure and joy, we are the most connected to the Divine. Never be ashamed of your sexuality, for it allows you to experience the powerful and blissful cosmic union between two souls.
2. Red Aventurine
Red Aventurine is another great crystal for enhancing passion between you and your partner. If you are feeling a bit depleted and worn out, this crystal can give you a much-needed boost of life force energy, which in turn will have a positive effect on your libido.
Working with a Red Aventurine crystal can help you let your guard down and surrender to the flow of sexual energy. If you are afraid to show your vulnerability to your partner, Red Aventurine can assure you that there is no need to be afraid.
Fear, worry, shame, and guilt can cause blockages in the flow of sexual energy through your body. That is why mutual trust and honest, open communication in intimate relationships is so important. You can only truly relax your body and mind when you trust your partner. The intentions of both sexual partners need to be clear and respectful.
To boost your energy levels as well as your libido, wear a Red Aventurine crystal as jewelry, carry it in your pocket or purse, tuck it underneath your bra or place it in your own crystal healing grid.
3. Crazy Lace Agate
This is a crystal of creativity and playfulness, reminding you to adopt a more playful approach towards your love life.
Oftentimes we get so caught up in worrying about the future and analyzing the long-term potential of our romantic relationships, that we are unable to enjoy the here and now. Crazy Lace Agate reminds us not to take life too seriously and to loosen up once in a while.
Crazy Lace Agate has incredibly positive and uplifting energy, which can help you feel more energetic, which in turn helps you have a more active sexual life. In addition to that, working with this crystal can help increase your self-worth and self-confidence, so that you could let your authenticity shine through. You will feel more relaxed and able to enjoy yourself more.
Always remember that real passion begins when your mind is switched off. That is why it is so important to let yourself go and not to hold back or try to control your bodily sensations.
A simple crystal ritual for igniting your sexual energy:
To ignite your sexual energy and passion, wait until the moon is full. Place any of the above-mentioned three crystals outside or on your windowsill under the rays of the moon. In this way, the crystals will charge themselves with the potent energies of the full moon. The next morning, program the crystals by asking them to reignite the sexual passion deep within you or in your romantic relationship.
After that, recite the following mantra I have channeled for you while holding the crystal (or crystals) in your hands: Sexual energy within me is free-flowing, my body is in full bloom and glowing!
Have faith that the crystals will work their magic on you!